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10 POWERFUL HABITS OF THE ULTRA SUCCESSFUL

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Jay swaminarayan

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Jay swaminarayan

14 Signs You’re An Emotionally Intelligent Person!!

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1. You’re constantly striving to understand the human condition. You notice everything – the way someone hesitates before they speak, the way their eyes light up when they see someone they love. You often notice all the things other people seem to miss and you seek understanding for the logic and motivation behind how people behave. You want to understand the human condition from every angle because it helps give you insight and perspective on your own life. 2. You’re inherently curious about the way other people live. You love talking to people from varying cultures and backgrounds because you love learning about how other people live and what makes them tick. You enjoy seemingly random interactions with strangers because that’s where you can often learn the most about other people. 3. You’re self-aware about your shortcomings and strengths. You know the things about yourself that make you not such an ideal person and you’re also aware of the things that make you really g...

How to Effectively Manage a Heavy Workload at Work!!

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We’re all busy, but sometimes we go through periods where the work piles up and it seems like it might never end. You might have such a heavy workload that it feels too intimidating to even start. That’s when you need to take a step back, take a deep breath, and start looking at what’s working and what’s not working. Let's start😊 1. a knowledge you can't do it all Many of us have a tendency to think we can do more than we actually can. We take on more and more projects and responsibility and wear numerous hats. We all have the opportunity to have and take on more work than we can reasonably expect to get done. Unfortunately, our workload is not static. Even now, while you are reading this article, I’m guessing that your inbox is filling up with fresh new tasks. To make real, effective progress, you have to have both the courage and resourcefulness to say, “This is not working”. Acknowledge that you can’t do it all and look for better solutions. At any given ...

How To Make The law Of Attraction A Daily Habit

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#1  . Focus On One Aspect At A Time T here are dozens of amazing Law of Attraction techniques. As time goes on, you’ll become adept at using many of them. However, when you’re first getting to grips with the Law of Attraction, experts that advise that you start by mastering one particular change to your daily routine. This is because of ego depletion. Our limited capacity for self-regulation, which makes it harder to sustain habits if we try to take on lots of them at once. Take a look at the  basic Law of Attraction exercises , and find the one you want to start with. Creative visualization  or  daily affirmations might be good choices, as they depend on very little previous knowledge and yet create tangible results. After a while, you can move on to focus on developing another daily Law of Attraction Habit. #2. Commit To A Month Of Effort There is mixed evidence regarding the length of time it takes to build a solid habit. Estimates tend to hover betw...

7 Steps To Change Your Negative Mindset

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The steps listed below are in order of what to look at first. They start by looking at the root cause which allows you to realise why you think the way you do. Then, you can look at ways to improve and change your negative mindset over time. 1 What is the cause of your negative mindset? This is a great place to start, because there will be a reason for the way that you think. So, I will list a few areas that you can think about to see if you can find the root cause. Look at your life and see if your negative mindset has stemmed from any of these areas: Past emotional trauma. Past or current illness. Living an unhealthy lifestyle. Chemical imbalance or nutritional deficiency. Parents/guardians/family/friends think and speak in a negative way. It is quite common for most people to realise that they negative thinking has stemmed from one of the above areas. For me it was all 5 areas. Although that was a bit of a shock to learn, it was also calming to know there wa...

13 Things Mentally Strong People *Don’t* Do!!

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1. They don’t waste time feeling sorry for themselves. Instead, they express gratitude. “Feeling sorry for yourself is self-destructive,” Morin writes. “Indulging in self-pity hinders living a full life.” It wastes time, creates negative emotions, and hurts your relationships. The key is to “affirm the good in the world, and you will begin to appreciate what you have,” she writes. The goal is to swap self-pity with gratitude. 2 They don’t give away their power. Oprah Winfrey has a strong grip on her power. People give away their power when they lack physical and emotional boundaries, Morin writes. You need to stand up for yourself and draw the line when necessary. If other people are in control of your actions, they define your success and self-worth. It’s important that you keep track of your goals and work toward them. Morin uses Oprah Winfrey as an example of someone with a strong grip on their power. Winfrey grew up dealing with poverty and sexual abuse, bu...

How To Appear Confident (When You’re Really Not)

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1. Stand Up Straight Standing up straight is probably the most powerful technique to projecting confidence through body language. Keeping your back straight, your shoulders back and your head held high displays status, power and that you are in control of your life. It can be tiring at first, especially if you have spent a lifetime slouching or bending over a computer, but it will become easier over time and you’ll soon be walking tall without even trying. 2. Keep Your Chin And Head Up Confident people are always looking ahead, never down at the ground. Looking down communicates that you are insecure or shy. Whether you are standing in a crowd or walking down a street, always keep your head up and your eyes looking straight ahead. 3. Keep Your Hands Out Of Your Pockets We naturally tend to hide or cover our hands by putting them in our trouser pockets when we are feeling nervous, uncomfortable or unsure of ourselves. If you keep your hands securely in your pockets then that...

26 Mind-Blowing Psychology Facts That You Never Knew About People!!!

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Learning something new about yourself is always interesting and entertaining. And understanding the psychology behind the way we behave, treat others, and express ourselves can be even more appealing. Today, we here at  Bright Side  have compiled a list of the most surprising psychology facts that can help you better understand yourself and others. Any friendship that was born in the period between 16 and 28 years of age is more likely to be robust and long lasting. Women generally prefer men with deep husky voices because they seem more confident and not aggressive. The people who give the best advice are usually the ones with the most problems. The smarter the person is, the faster he thinks, and the sloppier his handwriting is. Our emotions don’t affect the way we communicate. In fact, the very opposite is true: the way we communicate has an influence on...

13 Useful Psychology Tricks That You Need To Know and improve your skills!!!

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Every human being is a unique universe, but psychologists who have a keen eye for details keep discovering new behavioral patterns that are believed to be rooted in our childhood and can be appliedto everyone. We decided to share these useful psychology tricks; maybe they will positively affect your communication skills and make your life easier in some way. 1. To find out if a person likes you, pick a word  and every time he/she uses this word or synonymous word phrases, nod and smile. If he/she does like you, watch him/her start using the word all the time. 2. Do you want people to take your words seriously ? Every time you tell them something, say that your father taught you this. People tend to believe parents’ advice inherently. 3. Become an ultimate ‘Rock, paper, scissors’ champion!  To win at the ‘Rock, Paper, Scissors’ game, right befo...

Here's how to tell a psychopath from a sociopath!!

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The terms psychopath and sociopath are often used interchangeably, but they aren't quite the same thing. So what's the difference, you ask? To find out, we asked James Fallon, a neuroscientist at the University of California at Irvine School of Medicine who specializes in studying psychopaths (and also  happens to be one  himself). So what's the difference, you ask? To find out, we asked James Fallon, a neuroscientist at the University of California at Irvine School of Medicine who specializes in studying psychopaths (and also  happens to be one  himself). But that's not all. According to Fallon, both psychopaths and sociopaths can be further broken down into two subtypes, based on their demeanor:

10 tips to help improve your body language

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1. Practice smiling. Smiling not only makes you more attractive and trustworthy, it also improves your health, your stress level, and your feelings about yourself. Smiling slows the heart and relaxes the body, and it releases endorphins that counteract and diminish stress hormones. It also has been shown to increase productivity while performing tasks. According to several studies, smiling can trick your brain into feeling happy, even when you feel sad as you're smiling. Action Steps:  When you wake up in the morning, stand in front of your mirror and smile at yourself. Yes, you will feel foolish, but practice smiling to yourself for a minute or two. When you're in your car or alone at your desk, practice smiling. Be aware of the impact smiling has on other people, and remind yourself to smile more often with others. 2. Pay attention to posture. You practice good posture when your position sitting or standing creates the least amount of strain on supporting...